Jesse Green

Today I Am a Fountain Pen

The ritual isn

The Big Day

After a year of unpleasant planning (or lack thereof), I found unplanned pleasure at my son’s bar mitzvah

You Gotta Have Faith

In the final countdown to the big event, one chore keeps not getting done

God Is in the Details

After months of avoiding the big decisions, we finally began making the small ones

Don’t Ask, Don’t Kvell

Compromise about a bar mitzvah suit? Sure. About basic human dignity? Perhaps not so much.

The Gayish Problem

In a few months our son will become a man, with all the rights and responsibilities of Jewish adulthood. But what about us?

Stiffnecked People

We thought getting Erez to learn his Torah portion would be the hard part. Then we started planning the party.

Morey Hid a Lethal Loom

Every 13-year-old who faces the Torah has a tough code to crack. For parents, the code may be even tougher.

Today, You Are a Money Pit

But the bill for our son’s manhood became a convenient cover story for our anxiety

My Son, the Assimilator

Allan Sherman’s page in the American songbook