Author

Marjorie Ingall

Marjorie Ingall is a parenting columnist for Tablet and a contributing writer at Self magazine. She has written for The New York Times, Glamour, Ms., Wired, and the late, lamented Sassy, where she was the senior writer and health editor. She is the author of several books including Hungry, written with the model Crystal Renn (Simon & Schuster, 2009), and is the former East Village Mamele columnist for The Forward. She can be reached at marjorie@tabletmag.com.


Recently by Marjorie Ingall

Family

The Actualized Dragon

Imagining the world’s most politically correct children’s book
By Marjorie Ingall | 1:46 PM Aug 3, 2009

A friend recently directed me to Berkeley Playhouse’s “content preview” for its current production of Peter Pan. It warns concerned parents about the show’s “emotional intensity” and “anguish expressed through acting and song,” and points out that the pirates make “poor choices” and many characters “use weapons.” I actually think it’s good to talk about problematic characters and scenes in classic children’s literature. But I started to wonder: What would an absolutely politically and socially perfect modern-day children’s book look like? Perhaps something like this.

Family

Role Reversal

When children have to look after their aging parents
By Marjorie Ingall | 7:00 AM Jul 27, 2009

Paula Span, a 20-year veteran of The Washington Post and The New York Times’s New Old Age blogger, talks with Tablet about her book When the Time Comes: Families with Aging Parents Share Their Struggles and Solutions (Springboard, Hachette, 2009), which derived from her own experience caring for her mother as she was dying and helping her father, now 87.

Ritual & Observance

God of My Children

The impact belief systems have on our happiness
By Marjorie Ingall | 7:00 AM Jul 20, 2009

My 4-year-old daughter Maxine has been obsessed with a book about Noah’s Ark (which she calls Noah’s Work of Art). The other day, I asked her about the portrayal of God she was picking up from it. “God is the person who makes the laws,” she said confidently. “And if you break them you are in big, big trouble.”

Family

The Annotated Child: Road Trip!

Summertime, and the car rides ain’t easy
By Marjorie Ingall | 7:00 AM Jul 13, 2009

Summertime, and the car rides ain’t easy

Family

Parade Queen

The day my niece marched for gay pride
By Marjorie Ingall | 7:00 AM Jul 6, 2009

I wanted to march. I wanted Josie and Maxine to make signs: We Love Our Gay Uncles! I knew my kids would love the parade. Like many seven-year-olds, Josie is obsessed with fighting injustice (not only when it applies to getting an infinitesimally smaller piece of cake than her sister, but when it comes to ...

Family

The Mommy Wars

The missed opportunity behind the badge of bad mommyhood
By Marjorie Ingall | 7:00 AM Jun 29, 2009

We’re in a bad mommy moment. There are blogs including Her Bad Mother (tagline: “Bad is the new good”); Bad Mom (tagline: “Embrace Badness”); Bad Mutha Blogger (featuring a photo of a baby in a onesie reading “Mutha Sucka”); and Bad Mummy, No Cookie (tagline: “Tough chick with kick-ass kid making it up as I ...

Family

Mystery Achievement

The huggy, hilarious little nutball from elsewhere: my daughter
By Marjorie Ingall | 7:18 AM Jun 23, 2009

One of my kids, I get. The other is a mystery to me.
My daughter Josie, seven, is hyper-competitive. She feels everything way too intensely. She’s a voracious reader. She struggles endlessly with moral questions. When she’s angry, she narrows her eyes into little slits and a vein throbs in her jaw. I understand her ...

Family

Go Moe!

Thinking outside the Jacob-and-Hannah box for Jewish baby names
By Marjorie Ingall | 1:45 PM Jun 16, 2009

According to the Social Security Administration, the top five most popular names for boys born in 2008 were from Jewish Scripture: Jacob, Michael, Ethan, Joshua, and Daniel. The administration’s list of the top 100 names for girls includes such vintage American Jewish immigrant names as Sophie, Abigail, Hannah, Ella, Natalie, Lily, Lillian, Evelyn, and Rachel. ...

Family

Bubbe Needs a Makeover

The problem with portrayals of grandmothers in Jewish children’s books
By Marjorie Ingall | 7:00 AM Jun 11, 2009

Here’s an observation: most bubbes in children’s books seem to populate a folkloric or historic landscape—a misty, mythical Chagall-esque Old World, or the Lower East Side at the turn of the century, or Holocaust-era Europe. These women have faces etched with deep lines, wispy buns on their heads. They wear babushkas or long, faded, flowery ...