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Fighting for Jewish Funerals

A Pennsylvania rabbi, backed by a local imam, engages in a battle for full control over religious burials

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Rabbi Daniel Wasserman with a casket at the temple on Aug. 6, 2012. (Justin Merriman/Tribune Review)

Similar objections to the role and function of the funeral directors have been voiced within Pittsburgh’s Muslim community. AbduSemih Tadese, the imam of the Pittsburgh Islamic Center, is openly backing Wasserman against the Funeral Board. In my conversation with him, the imam echoed the point made by the rabbi about the additional burdens the funeral directors place upon vulnerable, grieving families.

“If a Jew or a Muslim dies today, they have to be buried within 24 hours,” Tadese told me. “If you have to deal with the funeral directors, the burial might not take place for two days, three days, sometimes even a week.” Moreover, some of the requirements of the Funeral Board, like the embalming of bodies being transported to other destinations for burial, are expressly forbidden by Muslim and Jewish religious law. “If a Jew is to be transferred to Israel for burial, or if a Muslim does the same in a Muslim country, asking us to perform an embalmment is a violation of our religious rights,” Tadese said.

By way of illustration, Tadese related a disturbing story that followed the death, last month, of one of the Islamic Center’s members. “The family was unable to bury him, so it was our religious duty to do so,” he said. “We had to raise almost $7,000 in order for the funeral home to release the body for burial. The family was sitting in my office crying, because the death took place on a Friday and we couldn’t bury him until Monday.”

Ron Ruman, press secretary for the Pennsylvania Department of State, who answers questions on behalf of the Funeral Board, told me he had no knowledge of this particular episode, but he did stress that “a funeral director cannot refuse to release a body because payment is not made at that time, so if that’s what happened, a complaint could be filed.”

Ruman emphasized that the funeral directors perform an essential public service. “It’s about protecting the consumer—that goes whether it’s the Medical Board, whether it’s an architectural license, or whether it’s funeral directors.”

With that in mind, I asked Rabbi Wasserman whether he might circumvent the conflict by becoming a licensed funeral director himself. “No,” he answered, since obtaining a license requires the study of embalmment, and “for Jews, that’s a desecration of the dead.” More fundamentally, he rejects the principle of state licensing for the performance of religious duties: “Is the State of Pennsylvania going to tell me how to daven, or how to teach gemarah?”

Indeed, while Wasserman finds the commercial imperatives of the funeral directors distasteful—“as soon as they come in, they start talking about different types of caskets and different types of services”—he is at pains to stress that the core issue at stake is the right of clergy to practice their religious traditions free from state intervention. At the same time, he emphasizes that he will obey any court decision: “We are proud citizens of this country. Whatever the court decides, we will listen, we will follow, we will figure out.”


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I bet there is anti-Semitism behind this. First….they go after kosher….then brit milah….and now funerals!!

Umish Katani says:

If there is $ behind it be assured the Jews on the funeral board will go after it. The goyim dont do jewish funerals, so who else is behind this… Gelt and Yiddin, it makes the world go around.

The Pennsylvania Code is clear:

” Persons engaging in the profession of a funeral
director in this Commonwealth shall be licensed by the Board and by the

As Rabbi Wasserman does not appear to be “engaging in the profession of a funeral director”, he ought to require no license

Nadine Bonner says:

That is not true in communities where there is no Jewish funeral home. Atlanta has a very large Jewish community, but until recently they had no Jewish funeral directors and they still use non-Jewish facilities.

Funeral directors are just irked because Wasserman is performing funeral services without selling $30,000 worth of “family services” along with it. We used to just dig a hole and dump the dead in it. When did it become a marketable industry? I told my daughter that a gallon of gas and a match are all the funeral I need…

Umish Katani says:

but in communities where there is facilities, the owners try to prevent others inorder to increase their business… nature of the beast.. there are no morals in business only profits and the prices funeral homes charge are outrageous and piracy. There is no reason a burial should cost thousands and thousands of dollars, just collusion between the few Jewish burial companies available,. This is akin to kosher meat… Because some shochet makes a bracha and slits an animals throat, doesnt make the meat 5x more expensive than a supermarket… Just limited availability and supply and demand… Look to Rubashikn for the example.. Gonifs…. and very few abattoirs available…. Rationalize all you want, but if you make it ‘kosher” the price goes up 500% automatically, Hey if i had a corner on the market, id do just as they do to increase the cost to the point to them yelling.

California Code is clear that barbers must be licensed and tutors must have teaching credentials. I have yet to hear of a court that would require either of those licenses of parents or the later of Sunday School teachers or the high school kid down the street.

This law is a scam set up by lobbyists of the Funeral industry to insure the bereaved are raped financially with legal sanction. It should be repealed as a matter of free practice of religion.

There is the Jewish concept that one is obliged to live by the law of the land. In most jurisdictions that I can think of, the transportation and handling of the deceased must be done by a licensed funeral director . . . so there’s the rub.
I am part of Tahara teams in two different communities. The large community Chevra, which is Orthodox, is run by a licensed funeral director. While he is not a Rabbi, he wears many hats in the Shul. All our volunteer work for traditional Jewish funerals takes place under his “guidance” but none of us have licensing or certification.
In the smaller community Chevra, which is run by a Conservative Rabbi, there is no licensed funeral director, but we have arrangements with a local funeral home to transport the deceased to their facility where we perform Taharas, sit Shmira, etc. They provide transportation services but we handle and care for the deceased.
Surely there must be a funeral home in Pittsburgh that would provide transportation services of the deceased and allow for the Jewish community, including Rabbi Wasserman, to attend to and perform traditional Jewish funeral rituals.

frjohnmorris says:

As an Orthodox priest, I have presided over dozens of funerals. I never realized what vultures control the funeral business until my mother died and I had to make the arrangements. It is a crime the way that these people make their money off of a person who is filled with grief and cannot think clearly. That it should cost so much to bury someone is a national scandal. It cost over $1,000 for them to open the grave. Here in a small town in Mississippi where I live it costs less than $100. There should not be that much difference. The funeral directors use their political influence to get laws passed that allow them to take unfair advantage of the grieving family.

Fr. John W. Morris

In Pa, transportation and handling of the deceased is regulated by the
Depratment of Health, Division of Vital Statistics. All of the funerals that are
done by the Chevra are done by first obtaining permits issued by that
department, which recognizes the right and the legality of the Chevra’s actions.
The funeral board, which in the Chevra’s understanding of the law only
regulations the profession of funeral directing, therefore does not have any
jurisdiction over those funerals

Umish Katani says:

BTW in the sun sentinel fort lauderdale today 8-27-12 there is an article re cremation and Jewish ritual…. In the article was the quote that average cost of a Jewish funeral is 14000 dollars basic services…. Including the plot. Disgusting, outrageous and now you know why the funeral directors want to keep others out of the pot at the end of the rainbow.. 14 grand to be put in the ground. 14 grand for what… shit… that is the price of years education in college for my kid…… so lets see do the dead get it or the living…. I cremate ate 1000 dollars….Jewish ritual or perpetual stealing be damned, The same is to be said for all the other hands out pay offs the rabbinate want… Kosher food, 5x the cost than treyf, for example. I stillsay if the funeral directors ccan keep out the competition, then they can simply keep the prices inflated. Old jewish saying, es iz schver zu zein a yid.(עס איז שווער צו זייַן אַ איד.. )and did they ever know it.


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Fighting for Jewish Funerals

A Pennsylvania rabbi, backed by a local imam, engages in a battle for full control over religious burials

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