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Rabbi Marc Schneier’s Hampton Synagogue Caters to New York’s Wealthy

As his personal life spun out of control and into the tabloids, they returned the favor by closing ranks around him

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Schneier is a hard worker. He travels frequently, bouncing from New York to Paris to Washington, and while people joke about his penchant for taking Town Cars instead of the subway, Schneier also understands the importance of showing up to the occasional non-glamorous event. One chilly weeknight in early March, I found him standing alone in the dim entry of the Islamic Cultural Center of New York on East 96th Street, looking for a room where about 50 young community activists were meeting to discuss how to connect Muslim and Jewish New Yorkers. One of Schneier’s foundation staffers moderated the event, and, for two hours, the rabbi sat and listened, hardly speaking at all. At the end, he stood by the refreshment table, considering the cookie selection.

Rabbi Marc Schneier and Tobi Rubinstein-Schneier meet their lion, “Rabbi Marc,” at the Jerusalem Zoo in 2009.Rabbi Marc Schneier and Tobi Rubinstein-Schneier meet their lion, “Rabbi Marc,” at the Jerusalem Biblical Zoo in 2009.
Sasson Tiram

But he is also, without question, a talented showman. At his Shavuot service, he went out of his way to draw analogies between ancient Babylon and modern Scarsdale, to illustrate the relationships between different Jewish communities of the ancient world, and when he talked about the brilliant marketing strategy of early Christians who cut the 613 Jewish mitzvot down to the better-known Ten Commandments, Schneier joked, “They didn’t need Howard Rubenstein”—a reference to the legendary New York publicist that drew snickers. Schneier also has the politician’s gift of instant recall for small personal details. From behind his lectern, designed to look like a leaning dune fence, he called on congregants by name and turned the discussion into a kind of game, awarding shout-outs to those who participated. “Yeshiva of Flatbush gets the point,” he exclaimed when one woman produced the correct answer to one conundrum from the recesses of her memory. He does the same for near-strangers: In our many conversations, he found ways to make references to West Los Angeles, where I once mentioned I’d grown up, as a means of building instant familiarity.

Schneier will happily recount, at length, how he chased Steven Spielberg to help him launch the Hampton Synagogue, in 1994, a story that began with Schneier asking Edgar Bronfman, then still actively involved in running the Seagram Company, to put him into position to corner Spielberg at a dinner Bronfman was throwing in the director’s honor. (It was the year that Spielberg won the best director Oscar for Schindler’s List.) “I needed some pizzazz, I needed some gravitas,” Schneier told me at our dinner. “This man was the most famous man on earth at the time,” Schneier went on. “If you’d asked me to choose between Spielberg and Clinton that year, I’d pick Spielberg. He’s Jewish. He’s in the Hamptons. There’s no stretch here.” The story of the dedication, which he has clearly told many times, wound through a cliffhanger in which a freak thunderstorm grounded Spielberg’s helicopter, and ended with the director showing up in a beat-up Volvo at the dedication of the sanctuary—the entrance of which is today, more than 15 years later, still decorated with a cylinder that visitors can spin to see various black-and-white images of Spielberg standing with Schneier and the synagogue trustees.

In the late 1990s, Schneier attempted to build a southern franchise of his Hampton Synagogue in Palm Beach, at the behest of Danny Abraham, the billionaire founder of the Slim-Fast weight-loss empire, who also happened to be related to Toby Gotesman Schneier’s father. South Florida was a winter destination for many of Schneier’s summer clientele, and it seemed like a good place to replicate the breezy Hamptons vibe: an authentic-enough Orthodox synagogue catering to wealthy Jews for whom religious observance was a nice leisure pursuit. The plan foundered under heavy opposition from the city’s established Orthodox congregations, though Abraham did eventually open his synagogue in 2002 as the New Synagogue of Palm Beach.

Within a few years, Schneier’s private life began showing signs of strain. In 2005, Toby Gotesman Schneier filed for divorce, amid rumors that she had been having an affair with the Hampton Synagogue’s cantor, Israel Rand, who left that year to become cantor at the synagogue in the Tel Aviv suburb of Ramat Gan. One person with knowledge of the situation claimed the alleged affair was a factor in the disintegration of the Schneiers’ marriage. Reached by phone in Israel, Rand, who had been going through his own divorce at the time, flatly denied the affair ever happened: “Hundred percent not true.” Marc Schneier declined to discuss the matter. But what is clear is that he later found solace with another woman, who happened to have the same name as his ex-wife: Tobi Rubinstein, a fashion designer who was herself divorced from a prominent congregant at Park East in Manhattan.

Despite the divorce, Schneier has preserved his ties with his ex-wife’s cousin Danny Abraham. Last September, when Abraham decided to host a private dinner at the Plaza Hotel for Palestinian President Mahmoud Abbas, Schneier made it on the guest list, due to his efforts over the past five years to establish links between Jewish and Muslim clergy in the United States and Europe. The participants—including former Secretary of State Madeleine Albright and Sandy Berger, the former national security adviser—were asked to limit themselves to brief questions for Abbas, but Schneier took advantage of the opportunity to preach a sermon about anti-Semitism in Europe. “The Jewish community has been in the forefront in the United States, in Europe, in combating Islamophobia,” Schneier said, according to a transcript of the event. “I ask that in your leadership capacity, when you visit these countries, that you speak out against anti-Semitism so that you will join other leaders in the Muslim world that are fighting for the rights of Jews as well.”

Schneier’s work on Muslim-Jewish relations, conducted under the auspices of both his Foundation for Ethnic Understanding and the World Jewish Congress, is an outgrowth of the black-Jewish relations he started with Papp in the late 1980s. (Papp, who died in 1991, remained listed on the Foundation for Ethnic Understanding’s tax filings as a board member until 1999.) Russell Simmons joined the board in 2001, as secretary, after selling his remaining stake in Def Jam Records for a reported $100 million. “I thought it would be good to work with the rabbi,” Simmons told me, in a phone interview. That same year, Simmons organized a secret meeting at his Tribeca penthouse between Nation of Islam founder Louis Farrakhan and a handful of boldface names who were looking to recreate the 1960s-era alliance between blacks and Jews: Cornel West, Martin Luther King III, and Schneier, who had published a book with King in 1999 about the relationship between Martin Luther King, Jr. and the Jewish community. Schneier was, at the time, the only high-profile Jew willing to meet Farrakhan, though at the height of the 2000 presidential campaign Sen. Joe Lieberman offered to do the same—provoking a stream of criticism from the Anti-Defamation League and others. Someone tipped off a reporter from Newsweek, who hung around outside. “No one came but Marc,” Simmons told me. “And Marc caught hell.”

Schneier continues to ally himself with the black community—he was on the invitation list for Obama’s inauguration in 2009, and last January, he was the lone Jewish representative onstage at a lunch event in Manhattan for Rev. Jesse Jackson’s Rainbow/PUSH Coalition—but, beginning about five years ago, he began to redirect his energy toward building ties with the Muslim community. Both he and Simmons, an ardent opponent of the Iraq war, saw an opportunity. “I think that in this country, if the amount of Islamophobia keeps expanding, it could be cause to allow war machine lobbyists and other lobbyists to push politicians to go into some war that does no one any good,” Simmons explained to me. Schneier also saw something else: another franchise opportunity. “The big issue for Muslim and Jewish leaders is to create an alliance,” the rabbi told me. “There is talk of fighting right-wing extremism. I have other ideas. It’s pure. It’s real.” He talked about a pair of summits on Muslim-Jewish cooperation he hosted for European imams and rabbis, first in December in Brussels and again in early March in Paris. This project, which began with a trip to Ellis Island Schneier hosted for European imams and rabbis in 2009, has come with the addition of a new member to Schneier’s board: the Kazakh-born Israeli billionaire Alexander Machkevitch, who remains mostly unknown in the United States, though he has been a member of the World Jewish Congress steering committee since 2004. In Europe, Machkevitch is known for his plans to build a pro-Israel news network to compete with Al Jazeera. And Schneier says he has designs on another part of the world. “This summer,” he told me, “our next conquest is Latin America.”

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Mr Mel says:

His social behavior is that of a Teenager and not of a prominent Rabbi. Do as I say not as I do.

MJ Rosenberg says:

Another excellent profile by Hoffman and the kind of piece we only get in Tablet.
It seems like the rabbi may be too interested in bling but that does not affect my view of him.
In a community where humanitarianism often extends only to our own, Rabbi Schneier consistently demonstrates that although charity begins at home, it must not end there.
A tiny people cannot exist as an island of ethnic self-absorption. Nor can it survive if it goes out of its way to deem the rest of the world our enemies.
Rabbi Schneier understands that. He reaches out, and reminds the world that not all Jews consider the “light unto the nations” role as passe.
He is an anti- anti-semitism machine. Wherever he goes, people think more highly of Jews.
He is entitled to all the Hermes ties he needs.

mark bernheim says:

the article is a good example of ambivalence in all its ambivalencies. how to portray someone with obvious human weaknesses as we all have, who yet manages to accomplish significance. that he deals with the rich and famous does not mean he is not aware of who they are, and who he remains. if you cannot decide at the end of the piece what to think about him, rabbi or not, that i would say means the piece succeeds. and i cannot say what i think, so it worked for me. I am not sure i would like to sit next to him on a long flight, but then again, he’s be full of interesting stories, wouldn’t he?

BUT: he asked not to have the zillion chintzy ties mentioned, and there they are! is that quite fair?? maybe now he’ll find something else to collect other than wives and cravats….

D'vorah says:

This man disgusts me. He is the kind of rabbi that gives Jews the world over a black eye and should be ashamed of himself. As to his congregation? This man has no moral currency and the fact that they can be taken in by him says a great deal about them. I’ll bet he eats pork on Saturdays!

Cypress says:

The otherwise informative article neglects to mention that one of Schneier’s major backers, former Westhampton congregant Dina Wein Reis, pleaded guilty earlier this year to federal charges that she duped corporations out of millions of dollars.

Rabbi Schneir is #26 on the list, apparently. See

David: #26 is his father.

The expectations we have of rabbis–that they not only be learned, kind, thoughtful,honest,decent people, but also perfect,is a recipe for disappointment. I have met lovely congregations led by severely flawed, ego-driven rabbis with pathetic personal lives.Yet these same rabbis fill,or more precisely, they act the part of caring spiritual leaders. For some people, that suffices. Congregations are more about the members of the community than one man or woman paid to lead a service.

Harold says:

“After being told that his favorite meal—tuna tartare—was unavailable on the [non-kosher] dinner menu, Schneier ordered a beet salad and a mushroom risotto, which in deference to kashrut he asked to have prepared with a vegan base.”

So in addition to being a public adulterer, he follows his own form of public non-kashrut. What else does he have to do to be finally expelled from the RCA — murder someone?

In reference to the article about Rabbi Marc Schneier. I think the article is well done and clear.
If he violated the rules of the RCA, then the RCA should enforce that in an appropriate manner even if it means expulsion. That is a decision for the RCA and the standards they want their membership to uphold. The Jewish people, as any people need to know that those who teach and care for others and who are recognized as Rabbi of the Congregation, are held to a standard that fosters confidence and trust in their ability. His conduct as that of many people (not so unusual whether in the religious or secular world) shows a character defect that would cause me to not want him as my Rabbi. There is an obligation you commit to when you become a Rabbi. It is not an easy path. Since a Rabbi is a teacher and leader who should be safeguarding his community as best as he can, their may be a sacrifice by those who choose this calling. The rewards can be great for the right man but the rewards are not for everyone. So his conduct would make me very uncomfortable.
However to a large extent it is a decision for the Congregation. It is the Congregation that must determine the benefits and disadvantages of having such a Rabbi and leader. The Rabbi chosen says as much about the Congregation as it does about the Rabbi. It must also be kept in mind that in our way, a Rabbi is still nothing more than a man with all the good and bad that human beings have to offer each other and we must not forget that. The excuse of mental illness though is a very poor explanation for choices he made.
Kenneth Ellman

hampton vacationer says:

I think the congregants are relieved to know the affair is with a woman and a great way to kill all the other rumors about his preference. Seems he has a great strategist for such things by upping the ante — what a brilliant defense– I have bipolar depression (no real surprise there) and will not comment on rumors etc.!! Who does the rabbis PR? He never fails to keep emerging from scandals, or almost scandals, unscathed.

Even here, it seems like his 3rd marriage ended because of the xrebetzen’s affair. Well it may have been because the rabbi turned cold and the woman decided she had enough and needed human touch once the white powder couldn’t fill that void, and so she wanted out. If anyone deserves the constructive abandonment divorce, it seemed this was the one. But there were rumors about his straying at the time too… that no woman could satisfy him… and the insiders were amazed at how he was like teflon and avoided a bigger scandal back then by throwing it onto his chazzan to carry his burden.

I feel sorry for all the ex-wives. Honest now Tobi Rubenstein, what did you really think? He found true love with you? You’d be at shabbat dinner and he’d sit their cold for several hours not even saying a word to you. Couldn’t understand how you allowed yourself to go down that path and still marry him. You looked miserable and desperate. Even with his “sex in the city” Purim shpiel you didn’t get it.. until the glass ceiling came crashing down on your head, literally. Next time YOU rise up and break that glass ceiling yourself! Don’t feel bad, he looks like a lousy fat slimey kisser.

He strikes me as exactly the kind of Rabbi lampooned in Woody Allen movies and Larry David’s shows.

g-d fearing jew says:

After reading your article, I immediately felt physically ill and vomited.
I have no words for the Hillul Hashem this so-called “Prominent Rabbi” continues to demonstrate in a very “public” fashion.
Rabbi Marc Schnier clearly demonstrates that he is “committed” to conducting himself anyway he wishes to in both his personal and public life and is above upholding the tenets, not only of the magnificent dynasty from which he descends, but indeed the basic principles on which centuries of Jewish Scholars, Teachers, Doctors and Philosophers have worked against overwhelming obstacles to ensure the continuity of the people they serve and advise in every aspect of life
The magnitude of devastation that results from validating someone who repeatedly demonstrates a callous disregard for common decency, modesty, humility, truth, respect for others (women in particular) and the very trust position from which he has been able to continue mocking what we hold precious is beyond measure.
Jews are commanded to uphold a high standard both ethically and morally in every arena.
At a time when so many families are struggling to raise respectful children and infuse them with the tools to navigate a turbulent world, communities are devastated financially resulting in increased stress-related illnesses, behavioral problems and marriage breakdowns are destroying the very fabric of our people, this man smirks and laughs in the face of not only those he represents publicly but his own family.
How does any self-respecting Rabbi stand on a pulpit giving a holiday address while his wife stands in a courtroom trying to forestall a “pre-meditated eviction” Rosh Hashana Eve?
Further, how does any man have the “chutzpah” to cheat, manipulate, and use yet another “vulnerable” woman to further his own skewed agenda?
To dare to “explain away” this behavior using a diagnosis of “bipolar disorder” should be evidence enough to immediately ask him to step down and seek treatment for an indefinite period.

Alan H Zwiebel says:

I still maintain that his malady is that he is “bi-penile”.

pinky613 says:

Allison’s article should strike a cord in every decent human being and inspire Jews of every tradition to come together and “dethrone this evil prince”.
Someone should advise Rabbi Marc Shnier that “the guardian of Israel never slumbers nor sleeps!”
He is exactly what the Jewish Community worldwide does not need as we prepare to greet Moshiach.
In my humble opinion, those who fill “his” coffers with large donations, grant him entre into the lives of the rich and famous as their “chosen” ambassador, and listen to Holy words spoken by a man who continues to prey on whatever and whomever he feels like and “certifies” it as “kosher” by his own standards….need their heads read!
Madoff, Strauss-Kahn and now “Rabbi” Marc Shnier…
One, Two, Three strikes you’re out!
It is time that every self-respecting Jew stand up and be counted as saying “No More” and demanding that he and those of his ilk are removed permanently from the Rabbinate or whatever public office they hold that denigrates Torah and Yiddishkeit.

Steven says:

Summers out here in Westhampton Beach have been tremendous thanks, in large part, to Marc. His congregation loves him, and the Hampton Synagogue is the best ticket in town. We have an incredible author series and the Sabbath service is unmatched. There is always a governor or a diplomat visiting. It’s all really interesting and it’s free.

Of course there is (and always has been a lot of jealousy out there. The bottom line is many of the people who talk about Marc don’t really know him. Unless you’re part of the scene, you just won’t get it. The congregation keeps growing and growing, but it’s not for everyone. I think the core congregation has a lot of self-confidence, and they enjoy the Rabbi.

The summer events are open to the public and people should come out and experience the whole thing first hand. There is nothing like the Hampton Synagogue, and we’re really grateful to Marc Schneier for his vision and his fortitude. Westhampton is the best Hampton.

Gitty Gitty Bang Bang says:

I was busy all week reading about Anthony Weiner. What a welcome respite!

Hersh Adlerstein says:

Why do we not realize that Jews are like our Christian neighbors in their behavior patterns? It took many years for the Roman Catholic Church to stop covering the crimes of pedophile and/or sexually voracious priests, and those of my generation recall the Protestant clergy who were, many years ago, so vividly exposed in Sinclair Lewis’s ELMER GANTRY and later in the film. Rabbis are human and suffer the same behavioral maladies. I personally knew three rabbis, in the same city, who committed public adultery, and interestingly enough were Orthodox, Conservative and Reform. Without judging this individual, what bothers me is that Jewish communal leaders seem to continue covering for him. Why? For fear of his powerful fundraising ability?

Lisa Silverman says:

About the ties: Are there “rules” of journalists when they are interviewing someone? I don’t know this rabbi at all, but if a guy repeatedly asks you not to mention something and then, davka, you tell everyone, do you think it will be hard to get future interview subjects willing to talk to Tablet magazine?

Anthony Weiner has only two weeks to get healed during his leave of absence. This article reflects that Rabbi Schneier has the unique pastoral gifts to heal him in a fortnight. Weiner is a Page Six regular, with incredible political contacts and Hollywood contacts, access to enormous amounts of money in the liberal Democrat Jewish community — just like Rabbi Marc. Weiner even is a personal practitioner of Moslem-Jewish understanding, in the Cokie Roberts model, a perfect fit for Rabbi Marc’s vision of understanding.

Rabbi Schneier’s vapid congregation, weighted in gold and worshipping Hermes,is perfect for him: just keep the bling rolling in, the numbers growing, the celebrities massaged, and be enough a jet-setter himself so that the celebs in the aisles not be ashamed to sit among his flock.
This Yom Kippur, would it not be smashing if, when Schneier opens the ark at Kol Nidre, out pops — yes! — Anthony Weiner himself, hiding inside, cured, healed, returned to his roots, fasting not only on Ramadan as he does in solidarity with Huna but also on another day. Imagine the inches of coverage on Page Six!

BTW — Although the article was beautifully crafted, the writer violated a cardinal rule of journalist ethics. The guy bragged on his tie label, a vain dolt needing to impress, but he did ask that the matter be maintained off-the-record. That request should have been honored. The article certainly included ample alternative bases for readers to have pity on him and to harbor the deepest of contempt for the superficial fools among American Jewry’s Beautiful People who find in such a clownish caricature a spiritual balm, their nexus to the Divine. Slim-Fast, indeed.

Dani says:

“RabbiDov” – leave your condemnation of the congregation until you have actually met the people here. One of the people interviewed, Harvey Kaylie, supports Ohel (you may have heard of Camp Kaylie?) as well as a myriad of other wonderful organizations. These people are not celebrities, and they are not lacking in moral fiber. Your judgmental attitude says far more about you than it does them.

Jim M says:

Musical chairs? Rabbi Schneier Superstar?

shushan says:

In the old days a schmuck would have gotten a beating from the boys in the neighborhood and learned his lesson. Today garbage like shnorror are allowed to become leaders and lead the gullible into oblivion

shushan says:

even a shonda like nybr dictator for life joe ‘shecky’ potasnik says Oy Vey when he reads a story about schneirer

1-Anyone really believe he is descended from 18 generations of Rabbis when most of us cant trace our lineage back past the 1800′s.
2-He reminds me of bernie madoff without the good looking wife.
3-a man married 4 times is sick. They say if you divorce once than possibly its the woman, if you divorce twice perhaps you just have bad luck in finding a spouse, BUT 3 or more marriages and its definitely YOU. Schneier is a disgrace and a shonda.
4- why would any Jewish organization allow an admitted mentally ill fellow be one of its leaders, unless the so called Jewish organization is really trying to destroy Jews from within.
5- 4 marriages and only 1 child. It appears anthony isnt the only one with a weiner problem.
6-why would a rabbi give his kid a goy name like brendan unless he is a 5th column fake convert to christianity pretending to be a rabbi.
Although I guess the name brendan is not as bad as shecky potasnik naming his kid harrison.
7-why would Jews continue to attend and finance the works of this shonda?
8- he may have been married 4 times to women but by the look on his face I bet he’d rather be married to barney frank. I aint never seen a more fagela looking man than marc.
9-would a real rabbi eat anything in a non kosher restaurant, he is a faker
10- newsweek like time is an anti semitic rag and anybody they hold up as a Jewish leader you can be sure is a hofjuden kapo with more skeletons in his closet than you can shake a lulav at.
11-lastly he is obviously a con artist type with a huge ego. This type will do to orthodox Jewry what potasnik and yoffie have done to conservative and reformed a self inflicted Holocaust!

Warren Z says:

Who knew the ‘rabbi’ has a

Steven at 5:40 above is writing a satire or is he serious? I can’t tell. Could he possibly be so self unaware?

Get a Clue Dan! says:

Dan -

Sounds like someone’s publicist monitoring the comments and responding.

Jonathan Lewis says:

Marc’s father Arthur Schneier started out in a small Brooklyn synagague, B’nai Jacob. I wonder what might have happened to Marc if they had stayed in that smaller less fianancially motivated world?

Rebecca says:

eh, so the guy is a rabbi to the rich and famous and behaves as such. So what? I’m not agreeing with his behavior by any means but he has a split personality: on the one hand he’s appearing to stand up/speak for Jews and Jewish issues, gives back to the community – hopefully to those who are several tax brackets lower than he is. On the other hand, he is tacky, loud and self centered, always looks for the next opportunity to get in a face shot and a hand shake, and pretends to be Orthodox. Eh, there are worse out there. And “we” as a community have always had good, bad, show offs, studious types. We are no different than anyone else. Now if he goes around promoting his version of Judaism as if it represents me, (like Chabad), then I would have a problem with him. At the moment though, he is just another rich, stuck up American Jew who, other than the religion, has nothing in common with me. I mean who “buys” an endangered animal as a anniversary gift and brags about it? TACKY!! but not unique. At least the poor animal is going to be taken care of, unlike the rich arabs who buy and sell endangered species for fun.

Rabbi Tony Jutner says:

Rabbi Schreier nned to acknowledge my as the leader of New Judaism and subscribe to its tenets of Economic Justice, Social Justice, and Right of Return of Endgenous inhabitants, especially the Palestinians. Then he will have done tshuva

So when o when does that crazy congregation get rid of him?
How many times can u keep violating Jewish law for those insane folk to throw him away?
Does the whole place have access to his meds?
Does the whole place have his disease of the soul?
Does G’d have to just strike down a MACAH on that place?

xrebitz3 says:

now the joke is on you out there in the front pew.
why bother praying at all…break out a golden calf and have a big party for yourselves!

“The personal side does not seem to have impaired his ability to do his work,” said Michael Schneider, the secretary-general of the World Jewish Congress.”

What?! He’s a rabbi! He’s supposed to council people on the state of their souls and his soul is obviously very sick. He seems like an egotist with no real desire to change.

I think we are judged not by how we deal with the masses (which is often just more food for the ego), but how we deal with those closest to us. This man has obviously hurt a lot of people, to an extent not so obvious from the brief tabloid reports. Shame on the so-called “Jewish World Congress.” Just more proof that you can wipe your butt with the so-called Newsweek list. I think it’s time to stop ranking rabbis, and instead give them space to do their real jobs and attend to their private lives.

jewess says:

Remember in the time of the Holy Temple…
They used to cast aside the people with ZARAAT…not just a skin disease but a soul disease!
Cast out this man/noman from our midst.
For his words and actions will influence generations to come.

wife#???? says:

it seems that there is an open invitation to all women to go to the Hampton Syng and get a new man….The Rabbi has given it a OU! stamp of approval! They all have lots of money and ties! the MARRIED ones are the best!……………Seriously, is this what we have produced as JEWISH LEADERS?????

souless says:

@wife#???..lets book a SHABUS TOUR for the women !!!!!! LOL! this RABBIWAANABE LUNATIC is pathetic at best…I sure hope you were not one of his victims!
P.S. Completely unappealing to any species!

hampton syng secret society says:

Having built a home there to be part of the community,We are finally disgusted to a point of no return.
It started off as a well meaning Jewish oasis in the Hamptons.
Over the years, wives, asst rabbis, cantors and numerous scandals later,WE have reached the end.
OUR shame for having such a leader is felt by many in the shul.
We wont speak out as a group..just leave one by one.
Unbuild, as we did build, the place we thought was home to G’d.
No longer a home for G;d or anyone..anymore


jdate says:

the RCA should take him out.
Isnt this guys behavior alot worse than ordaining a woman?
Or are we in Saudia Arabia?

saddened says:

it is a real shame that this man continues to represent Jews.
He should made to step down.
In any other place or religion or situation, he would have been fired by now.
It just shows what a depraved world we live in.
His lack of morals and punishment is a mere reflection of our own diseased society.
Not even addressing an apology or humility from this overgrown stuffed toy , that has been ordained!
Shame on the RCA and same on WJC and any other org that finds him suitable for any job.
What a horrible example for the rest of the world to see.

jacob says:

meh…i agree with the above comments that the editor and writer should have kept to some journalistic standards about the tie comment. but lately standards has been lacking in alot of pieces here recently…

other than that..I was shocked that some jew (not Marc) would throw a party for Mahmoud Abbas..its like the most random thing…hey dear..lets throw a party a invite Mahmoud

saddened says:

@Jacob..if thats ALL that bothers you…then you are just the type of idiot that attends that crazy plc.
Someday , you will recover from drinking the poison!
lets hope its not too late!
p.s. where you also the editor of the porno tapes?

chanta says:

Look this guy is a gay fat pig!
Gotesman schneier built him lock, stock, and barrel
the others?
just notches in his fat gucci belt

saddened says:

@chanta…each wife served a purpose to him!
This last one really knew how to dress!
The crazy syng watched her like a fashion show.
The gay pig could not keep up with her..or afford her.
So he found a new one that looks like she needs a good grooming lesson.

did anyone catch page six today?
I guess the Rabbi 2tone got what he asked for..always loves his page six.
The 4 wife is gonna nail him to the cross on national tv
What a world!!!!!

omg says:

i am sorry that wife #4 cant talk YET!
Looking forward to what she will have to say, when she can!
We are all much more curious than before.

chanta says:

The 4th wife has a PENIS!
rubinstein is a hermaphrodite!
Where have all of you been ?

omg says:

wow…then he should have stuck with her,,,cause the good gay rabbi needs PENIS only!

Aaron says:

Marc Schneier’s purpose in life is the exaltation of Marc Schneier. His PR manager inserts him into as many charitable organizations as will have him, in the most prominent positions that can be arranged, but Marc’s contribution is always startlingly lightweight. (Ditto his authorship.) This characteristic, combined with his well-publicized moral lapses, make an outsider wonder how such a nebbish could attain such a place of prominence.

If a group’s “spokesman” is a manipulative, self-promoting mediocrity, folks think he is representative of the group. Maybe he is.

Which group does he represent?
1.Rabbinical Gay Marriage Reform?
2.Mental Disorder as the ultimate Defense?
3.Hermes Collection Agency?
5.Jews against The Ten Commandments?
6.Newsweek”s Top Ten Adulterers?
7.Wives without a Cause?
8.Diet of Unwanted Women?
9.Make all Restaurants Kosher?
10.President of the Destruction of The Hampton Syng?

chanta says:

You people just dont get it!
The 3rd wife( toby gotesman schneier) literally built him from nothing !

That is not much to b proud of CHANTA!

The subsequent time I learn a blog, I hope that it doesnt disappoint me as a lot as this one. I imply, I do know it was my choice to read, but I truly thought youd have something attention-grabbing to say. All I hear is a bunch of whining about something that you can fix for those who werent too busy looking for attention.

In the state of NJ not everyone is judged by the company they keep. After NJ Democrat State Senator Loretta Weinberg wined and dined with her Beverly Hills Broker and filled Madoffs pockets she cast herself as a victim and was canonized by both party’s as an ethical saint


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