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Critics of Israel say the state touts its gay-rights record only to conceal its oppression of Palestinians. They call it pinkwashing. That’s nonsense.

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The Jerusalem Gay Pride parade, July 29, 2010. (Uriel Sinai/Getty Images)

In June 2007, I marched in Jerusalem’s gay pride parade. To do so was a risk. A group of ultra-Orthodox rabbis had issued a hex on the event. “To all those involved, sinners in spirit, and whoever helps and protects them, may they feel a curse on their souls, may it plague them and may evil pursue them,” they declared ahead of the march. Two years earlier, a fanatical Orthodox Jew had stabbed three parade participants. And in 2006, a prominent Hebron sheikh had asserted that the parade was “a cancer whose objective is to destroy the Islamic nation through humiliating Jerusalem by demonstrating the perversions of gays and lesbians.” Gays serve an ecumenical purpose in the Holy Land: Extremist Jews and fundamentalist Muslims put aside their differences to join together in hating them.

Thankfully, no violence occurred at the 2007 parade, though hundreds of anti-gay activists lined the route shouting imprecations and holding hateful signs. “Go to a shrink,” one particularly blunt poster read. “Go Away. Your sickness should be healed, not flaunted,” declared another. Over 7,000 police and army officers protected the marchers, and snipers were placed on the rooftops of nearby buildings.

As the ugly reactions to the parade revealed, the vast array of rights that gay people enjoy in the Jewish state—which include serving openly in the military, adoption, domestic partnerships, and the recognition of marriages performed abroad—did not emerge from nowhere. These rights are the fruit of hard work on the part of many activists, gay and straight, who had to push for them against politically powerful, socially conservative elements. This ongoing fight for inclusion was manifested most recently in the creation of an LGBT faction within the Labor Party, supported by all the party’s Knesset members except for Arab-Israeli MK Raleb Majadele.

But the struggles of Israeli activists and the progress they’ve achieved are meaningless to some, including Sarah Schulman, professor, novelist, and self-described “active participant citizen.” In a New York Times op-ed published last week, Schulman argued that these advances in gay rights are merely a “potent tool” in the Jewish state’s “pinkwashing,” by which she means Israel’s “deliberate strategy to conceal the continuing violations of Palestinians’ human rights behind an image of modernity signified by Israeli gay life.” As evidence of this so-called pinkwashing, Schulman cited the fact that the Tel Aviv tourism board is spending $90 million on a campaign to market the city as “an international gay vacation destination.” For Schulman, Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu’s reference to the Middle East as a region “where women are stoned, gays are hanged, Christians are persecuted” in his May speech to Congress is yet another example of the sinister pinkwashing trend, also known in many quarters as diplomacy.

Schulman, a supporter of the Boycott, Divestment, and Sanctions movement, isn’t the first person to employ the phrase. In May, a writer for Time magazine alleged that Israel and Israelis’ participation in a series of international gay events was part of a coordinated campaign undertaken “in the hopes of redirecting [Israel’s] global image away from politics, terrorism and the occupied territories.” Joseph Massad, a professor of Arab politics at Columbia University, told Time that Israel launched this effort “to fend off international condemnation of its violations of the rights of the Palestinian people.” (Massad has written a book, Desiring Arabs, which alleges the existence of a nefarious “Queer International,” with supporters of Israel at its core, whose “discourse … produces homosexuals as well as gays and lesbians, where they do not exist” so as to paint Arab cultures as barbaric.)

The first fallacy of the pinkwashing meme is that it’s a non sequitur. No one is saying that Israel ought to be immune from criticism because it treats gay people humanely. Israel’s stellar record on gay rights does not prevent anyone from condemning the country’s settlement policies, its proposed ban on foreign funding of NGOs, or its lackluster effort to integrate Arab Israelis—issues that Israeli gay activists, many of them leftists, would gladly join Schulman in denouncing. But none of these failings renders Israel’s record on gay rights any less impressive, nor does touting that record constitute a covert method of justifying the occupation or racism against Arab citizens.

Schulman seems incapable of such discernment. “Increasing gay rights have caused some people of good will to mistakenly judge how advanced a country is by how it responds to homosexuality,” she wrote in the op-ed. While it would be foolish to judge a country’s “advancement” solely on the rights of gays, it is a telling standard. The protection of minorities is a bedrock principle of any liberal society, and it is an indisputable fact that sexual, racial, and religious minorities are better off in Israel than they are anywhere else in the region.

Though Schulman claims that, “pinkwashing … manipulates the hard-won gains of Israel’s gay community” it is Schulman who renders these gains meaningless. According to her, the victories of gay-rights advocates in Israel do not exist in and of themselves, but are cogs in a grand propaganda machine to legitimize occupation and oppression. The effort to create a more open and inclusive Israeli society is merely part of a broader PR campaign—undertaken, ironically enough, by the same right-wing forces who recommended I see a psychiatrist to cure me of my homosexuality—to fool credulous Western liberals into believing that Israel is something it’s not.

While accusing the government of Israel and pro-Israel activists of deceiving well-intentioned progressives, Schulman and her ilk are in fact using the issue of gay rights to forward an ulterior agenda. So consumed are they by hatred of Israel that they are willing to distort the truth about the horrible repression of homosexuals in the West Bank and Gaza Strip. If there’s any cleaning of dirty laundry going on here, it is Schulman’s whitewashing the plight of Palestinian gays.

Schulman’s assertion that homosexuality has been effectively “decriminalized” in the Palestinian territories since the 1950s when Jordan revoked colonial-era sodomy laws, will come as cold comfort to the countless gay Palestinians who have fled to Israel after being tortured or receiving death threats by Hamas or Fatah agents. Schulman’s claim would certainly come as news to Maen Rashid Areikat, the PLO’s ambassador to Washington. When asked earlier this year if homosexuality would be tolerated in a future Palestinian state, Areikat replied, “This is an issue that’s beyond my [authority].” Hamas strategist Mahmoud Al-Zahar was blunter. In comments directed toward Westerners, Al-Zahar told Reuters last year that “You do not live like human beings. You do not (even) live like animals. You accept homosexuality. And now you criticize us?” And whatever law might be on the Palestinian Authority books has yet to persuade the leaders of Aswat, a Palestinian lesbian organization, to relocate their headquarters to Ramallah from Haifa. By making the absurd claim that the issue of gay rights is being “manipulated” by the Israeli government, Schulman ends up making excuses for people who kill homosexuals.

Recognizing the enormous gap between Israel and the Palestinian Authority on their respective gay-rights records, critics of the Jewish state have gone to tremendous lengths to propagate a massive lie in order to win over Western progressives. This cognitive dissonance has driven ostensible intellectuals like Columbia University’s Massad to justify the oppression of gay Arabs, as he did in the aftermath of the 2001 “Queen Boat” incident in Egypt, when police raided a gay disco and 52 men were arrested, tortured, and put through a humiliating show trial. “It is not the same-sex sexual practices that are being repressed by the Egyptian police,” Massad wrote in Desiring Arabs, “but rather the sociopolitical identification of these practices with the Western identity of gayness and the publicness [sic] that these gay-identified men seek.” In a 2006 interview with the Advocate, Aswat co-founder Raudo Morcos complained about people who portray Palestinian culture as “backward” regarding its treatment of homosexuals. “What is backward? Backward to whom? Are we comparing the Middle East, the Arab community, to the Western world? This is not a fair comparison,” she said. But if Morcos and other advocates of the Palestinian cause genuinely believed in human rights then they would, without hesitation, acknowledge the suffering of Palestinian gays. It’s not mutually exclusive to criticize both Palestinians and Israelis.

Introducing the term “pinkwashing” into the mainstream debate about the Arab-Israeli conflict is edifying in at least one respect: It lays bare the delusion, paranoia, and cynicism of the Jewish state’s most earnest detractors. In their minds, any positive statement made about the country is necessarily part of a propaganda campaign in the service of a far-right agenda. For an increasingly large swath of the international left, there really is no good Israel can do, short of disappear.

  • lazer

    The pinkwashing debate is really nuts and all over the place; there are many conclusions to draw. Without a doubt is Shulman correct: Israel’s success with queer rights exists in a context of hasbara and promotional activities. It has to do with simple rhetoric and otherization, things like, “we’re better than them.”

    But Kirchik is right, too: these criticisms exist in the context of people simply bashing Israel every chance they get. While individual criticisms are not suspect, they all add up to something almost nefarious. Mossad’s “queer international” sounds downright delusional.

    These two possibilities aren’t mutually exclusive.

  • Jason M

    Both Schulman and Kirchick have it wrong. There are 2 Israels: the liberal-minded, ethical one that it was founded by, and a fundamentalist, tribal strain that are johnny-come-latelies, but are wards of the state, and are slowly turning back the tide of progress created by the former.
    Kirchick mentions the LGBT faction of Labor, curiously without mentioning that Labor is on a steep decline. Its replacements in Knesset share far more of their values with the fundamentalist, tribalist Palestinians they spend much of their time bashing.
    I am no fan of the BDS movement, and I don’t believe the government is involved in a sinister campaign to “pinkwash” its crimes, but rather it is trying to explain that the situation in Israel is complex.
    Sadly, that complexity is gradually reversing itself. When the settlers have infiltrated most of the West Bank, and when fundamentalist, tribalist values have infiltrated the Israeli psyche, then those hoping for a singular binational state will have paved the way for their dream. And, HaShem, which spends most of Leviticus imploring Israel to set itself apart from its neighbors, might very well grant it to them.

  • David B.

    After Joshua Cohen’s turd of a piece recently on Tablet and the ensuing thread, I think Tablet just saved its soul from dive bombing into the anti-Israel swamp. Close one.

  • ben Dish

    It’s not just gays who get a one way ticket out of Palestine. It is also democracy in Aza. All it took was one election to see how Islamists view democracy. Where as in Israel people continue to be able to vote and change course, 1,5 million Azan’s ( willingly ? ) gave up that right when they voted in Hamas. btw. the Nazi’s also were voted into the Reichstag and the declared the process obsolete.
    Now, where is my K-Y ? I feel like shafting myself.

  • Sophia

    The very term “pinkwashing” is repugnant and Schulman’s piece in the NYT made me ill.

    Beyond that, people interested in gay rights and/or Israel bashing need only look closer to home. There are plenty of people in the US who think gays are an abomination and they are powerful politically and represent (in their own minds at least) the Christian religious majority here. In many cases, these are the same people who are trying to take away women’s rights and workers’ rights.

    Yet, who is suggesting that the US is illegitimate and should be boycotted, or that our democracy is simply whitewashing (so to speak?)

    We ALL deserve an apology from Ms. Schulman and imo the NYT although it isn’t hard to find people who will publish tripe for its own sake. And by “all of us” I mean Americans, liberals, progressives, Jews, Israelis and people around the world who are working for human rights and inclusiveness.

    Bashing liberal democratic societies because they may contain biased or reactionary elements is just nuts. And – it’s anti-democratic on its face. Democracies BY DEFINITION do not include people who march in lockstep.

  • http://www.marjorieingall.com marjorie

    Best response to the Schulman piece I’ve read yet. Bravo.

  • John B

    I heard Schulman and Massad were writing a book together. The working title is the ‘Pink Protocols of Zion’…. It’ll sell out at the next Durban conference on racism.

  • Mike

    Hasn’t Massad been out there promoting Assad and the Syrian regime? I’m just sayin’.

  • Tobias Engel

    Yeah and Arafat may have died of AIDS, and what other stories aren’t being told? Shame and fear aren’t far from any of us. And rights are right, even in the midst of other wrongs, where the fight against Jewish fundamentalists is ongoing.

  • Ellen Rovner

    The denial of basic human rights in one sector of a society is not ameliorated by the granting of basic human rights to another sector of a society. Rather, all peoples in a society, including the privileged and “mainstream,” as well as those who are marginalized and “othered,” lose.

  • greeneyeshade

    What’s Hebrew for “Bingo!”?

  • http://972mag.com Dahlia Scheindlin

    I actually looked forward to a spirited response to this debate but about halfway through this, found myself saying “can’t you do any better?” Kirchick chooses beginner-level rhetorical devices as rebuttals and gives himself one easy break after another, hurriedly ignoring all the nuance of Shulman’s piece and perhaps assuming that we readers won’t notice. just a few examples: 1. “schulman said all gay rights progress = pinkwashing.” Duh – no. reread the article and keep your knee-jerk in check. 2. “Politicians who are homophobes are incapable of machinations that involve exploiting gay rights to justify bad policy.” No, i’ve never heard of a politician capable of hypocritical political machinations. 3. “raising this issue reflects Schulman’s- and other people’s – all-consuming hatred of israel.” I really expected more from tablet than paper-thin “all critique of israel = hatred” argument. I’m disappointed in the argument, disappointed with the author for betraying a genuine, deep need for reflection within israeli society and offended by his insult to the readers’ intelligence. And disappointed in Tablet for not insisting on stronger thinking from its contributors. Anyway, Ellen Rovner’s comment here is so obviously spot-on that I don’t need to repeat it.

  • ben Dish

    Dahlia,
    a point you missed, is that there are many in Israel who are deeply offended by Schulman’s rhetoric, since it is pure BDS. You and I live in Israel, and so we know that there is a great deal more nuance in the ‘field’ than Schulman would have us believe. Part of the problem crystallizes around uncouth anti-Israel talk where all are painted with the same brush by agitators who do not really understand Israel. One of the many reasons Israeli’s do not trust the Palestinians/Arabs is precisely because of the way “they’ treat minorities. As a very simple example I could name Egypt’s nearly hysterical relationship with anybody who they think might be Israeli/Jewish, I have experienced this myself, not just Grapel. Kirchick’s core is his last sentence :

    ” In their minds, any positive statement made about the country is necessarily part of a propaganda campaign in the service of a far-right agenda. For an increasingly large swath of the international left, there really is no good Israel can do, short of disappear.”

    It is this approach which alienates most Israeli’s. Many at 972mag feed into this unbalanced hysterical far left discourse, and You must know that most in Israel completely reject those positions.

    As long as rockets continue to be launched at random into Israeli population centers I’ll party with my gay friends. Schulman is that grey zone between Finkelstein/Dana and those who genuinely are looking for real change. Not the abolishment of Israel as a Jewish State.

    On another note, I am getting bored with especially the US-Hebrew far lefts discourse. It is irrelevant within Israel. It is a luxury in a far away land where all that is at stake is an opinion, not your children’s lives. And opinions, well they are like “……..” everybody has got one.

    But my son has only one life. Not 1027.

  • David S

    The fact that Sarah Schulman’s article appeared in the highly coveted editorial section of the Times demonstrates just how craven the editorial staff is in its knee jerk hatred of Israel. At least once a week there is an article criticizing Israel from the likes of Roger Cohen or Nicholas Kristoff or Thomas Freedman. At least these articles are about politics. Sarah Schulman on the other hand fails to recognize the most obvious fact…the Palestinians HATE gays and would almost certainly treat them worse than any treatment conceivable in the state of Israel. Its as if a murder is being committed right next to a boxing match and the writer chooses to focus on the boxing match! The editorial staff has an unlimited number of topics to choose from when it decides which editorial to run. That it chooses to make even this issue into an opportunity to advance an anti-Israel agenda is sickening and hypocritical in the extreme.

  • http://www.jewlicious.com ck

    Hey James, remember that one time in Ramallah when we asked the US educated Palestinians we were with what the situation for gays was like in Ramallah and they answered without a moment’s hesitation “if a member of my family was gay, I’d kill them.” Of that Palestinian teen in a mini skirt who declared “If anyone would ever open a gay bar in Ramallah you would see the flames in America!” Man you sure looked a little nervous there… Good times, good times…

  • Josh

    Dahlia – while you may not have thought Kirchik’s piece was as articulate as your colleague Joseph Dana’s unhinged rantings and ravings against “Zionists” in +972, I for one thought it was excellent.

  • David Graniewitz

    An excellent rebuttal of Schulman’s article. Have you tried to get this printed in the NY Times where it will get a wider audience? So far her claims have gone unanswered in that rag.

  • yehudah

    a big problem with the rhetoric used by kirchik and others (esp. at TNR and commentary) is that it refuses the recognize the difference between critique of a belief or position and that critique of a culture.
    in his quoting of morcos’ problem with the language of “backwards,” kirchik conflates that with a lack of recognition of palestinian gays’ suffering. that is not the same statement. to call palestine backwards is a racist discursive maneuver than imposes a cultural norm as defined by (some proposed) western morality. to refrain from that kind of claim still leaves plenty of room to (legitimately) criticize palestinian society as dangerous and harmful to gays as well as to empathize with the suffering there.

    ironically, kirchik’s article is precisely an example of this phenomenon of pinkwashing, which he refuses to acknowledge. to identify with the queer community and, from leveraging that position, to criticize palestine en masse and to lionize israel en toto is precisely the issue at play.
    to be a pro-gay country, on the whole (which it is, and for which it deserves credit) does not exempt israel from other moral quandaries. to be a dangerous region for gays (which it is, for which it deserves critique) does not delegitimize palestinian national aspirations.

    mr. kirchik, i am proud of your decision to march in the pride parade in jerusalem. when i lived in that holy city, i was active in the open house there, a wonderful institution.
    your actions testify that you care about gay rights. if that is the case, then you, too, will stand against its manipulation and use to trade off on one part of a human rights agenda (queer inclusion) for the sake of another (minority rights, national aspiration).

  • http://972mag.com Dahlia Scheindlin

    @yehuda. Well said. thank you.
    @Josh – i wasn’t here to defend Joseph’s article on Zionism. That’s about as relevant as saying that poor gay record in Palestine is somehow related to legitimizing israel’s policy toward Palestinians.
    @ben Dish. I hear you. I’m speaking for myself, not representing any specific other writer at 972. I also relate personally to your experience in egypt. however, just as an aside, palestinians say the exact same thing about why they do not trust israelis – look at the situation of the arab minority. you can compare it to other countries and say it cd be worse, but the point is they are treated as second class citizens and that does not reassure palestinians.
    I do think there are purely anti-israel, anti-jewish nuts out there, but i think it’s a cop out to dismiss this article by calling upon them – there are nuts everywhere. I honestly don’t know if Sarah Schulman is one of them. But I’m judging her article on its own merits – and i’m getting increasingly bored with this trend of writing people off b/c of something else they’ve written or said elsewhere. This article articulated something i’ve felt myself (living in TA and very closely connected w the scene), and heard expressed by gay friends/activists here. On that level alone, it has my vote.

  • DRW

    Dahlia: when you link your name to 972mag.com (and not to your own contributions), it is reasonable to assume that you represent 972. You specifically chastized tabletmag not just for printing Kirchik but “for not insisting on stronger thinking from its contributors.” Consequently, it is fair game for you then to answer for the deficit of “stronger thinking” by Joseph Dana and your colleagues at your 972mag which makes no attempt to present the variety of viewpoints that can be found at tabletmag.
    Yehuda: I’ve read your post 3 times and still can’t figure out if you are sincere or are writing a witty parody of pompous, pseudo-academic jargon.

  • Ben

    It should be noted that almost all of the rights that you discussed in your article, including adoption, civil partnerships, marriages recognized abroad, and even the right to march in Jerusalem, are due to court rulings, not because the Knesset or the government willingly passed laws to confer these rights to the LGBT population.

  • Jeffrey

    IS it something intrinsic within our Jewish character that so many of us — on the left and right — can find no good in our own community that can not be neutralized or even turned into a negative by finding something bad (worse, of course). Schulman’s twisted — and in my view, often disjointed — opinion piece makes an extreme reach to find a cloud surrounding the silver lining. She strives to connect some Scandinavian gay right-wingers with the entire gay movement of Israel, merely by mentioning them in the same essay. There is no real relationship, merely an association in Schulman’s perverse world view. Israel has had a bona fide pro-gay public policy that has spanned decades, under all political parties’ leadership. The general population of Israel has among the most positive attitudes towards gays of any country in the world. When the monstrous 2009 anti-gay attack in Tel Aviv took place, the entire nation of Israel publicly expressed outrage and solidarity with the LGBT community, including PM Netanyahu.
    One does not need to whitewash Israel’s mistreatment of Palestinians and Arab citizens to acknowledge the world leadership Israel has demonstrated when it comes to LGBT rights. The truth is, when all is said and done, Israel still stands tall in the Middle East when it comes to human rights. This truth does not diminish either the wrongs Israel commits, nor abate (my own) genuine concern about the erosion of these rights and other freedoms in Israel’s current political climate. But Schulman’s voice does nothing to advance human rights anywhere, nor provide any succor or support for progressive Israelis and their supporters in the U.S.

  • http://www.jochnowitz.net George Jochnowitz

    Back in 2005, Andrei S. Markovits, writing in the relatively progressive magazine Dissent, said, “A new European (and American) commonality for all lefts—a new litmus test of progressive politics—seems to have developed: anti-Americanism and anti-Zionism (though not anti-Semitism, at least not yet).” Sarah Schulman shows how right Markovits was. She must pass the litmus test by being anti-Israel, despite Israel’s remarkable history of pioneering in gay rights.

    Schulman cites an Israeli professor, Aeyal Gross, as saying that “gay rights have essentially become a public relations tool.” Good! Israel should publicize its virtue, especially if doing so will show the world that freedom can expand even in a threatened country. Gross adds that “conservative and especially religious politicians remain fiercely homophobic.” That is no surprise. Israel has freedom of thought and many differing opinions coexist there. Gross and Schulman, however, must pass the litmus test by looking for reasons to be anti-Israel.

  • DRW

    It’s remarkable how these Jewish “progressives” become unhinged when anyone dare find a single redeeming value in Israel. It throws them into inner turmoil: they cannot countenance an Israel that is anything but the epitome of racist colonialism, castigated by all decent people. They have to resort to the faux-academic jargon and Orwellian doublespeak exemplified by Yehuda above to turn black into white and vice versa to restore their outraged equilibrium. Schulman and Scheindlin remind me of the leftist researchers a few years ago who complained that the IDF, unlike all other occupying militaries, did NOT commit widespread rape against civilians under their control. They rationalized that this was the case, not because of any moral compass among Israelis (G-d forbid) but precisely because Israelis are so racist against Arabs that they view them as not “worthy” of rape. http://www.israelnationalnews.com/News/News.aspx/124674
    I’m also reminded of the Oxford student interviewed on Sarah’s voxtablet program last year who attacked Israel for its progressive fertility programs: in her view, the fact that these programs benefitted Arab women equally, did not absolve the government of the de facto racist intent behind the programs to promote Jewish birth.
    Of course all these examples are from Jewish academicians. They carry on a stream of self-abasement and insinuation with our enemies that has plagued a portion of our people for two thousand years.

  • andrew r

    “In a New York Times op-ed published last week, Schulman argued that these advances in gay rights are merely a “potent tool” in the Jewish state’s “pinkwashing,””

    First of all, it was weak on Shulman’s part to emphasize the de-criminalizing of homosexuality by Jordan in the 50′s given the actual situation for Palestinian gays in the PA and Gaza.

    However, one obvious sign of a weak defense of Israel, or a weak response to an attack on Israel, is the lack of reading comprehension vis-a-vis the original argument. Shulman did not attack the advances of gay rights in Israeli society itself. She attacked the PR offensive emphasizing these rights as a way to distract from the occupation. I’ve already read several responses that blatantly ignore her line, “Pinkwashing not only manipulates the hard-won gains of Israel’s gay community[...]”

    At the same time, most of the commentary here essentially proves her point: Israel’s defenders would rather discuss the state of gay rights in Israel than its racist exclusion, disenfranchisement and de-naturalization of the Palestinian refugees, and of course the occupation itself. This is fundamental to how Israel is constructed as a Jewish state.

    Furthermore, Palestinian gays are persecuted by Israel, as Palestinians. Israel’s impressive gay rights, as with the right to reside in the country and build a house there, are really Jewish rights.

  • ben Dish

    DRW,
    Dahlia Scheindlin is no Schuhlman that is for sure.
    I do agree however with the rest of your comment, something I alluded to in a previous post. One of Tablets issues and basically all others is that it publishes largely articles written by non Israeli’s. The gap between the reality of what Israeli’s do, feel and think and what is written about them is HUGE. Wether it is from the far left or the far right, what we read in EU or US publications has very little to do with reality.
    As the far left bitches about a supposed concerted “news black out” by dark forces manipulating and Islamophobia so it has itself morphed into polemicists. From vicious viral campaigns, outright lies ( Joseph Dana & Co. ) to a non grasping of the nuances of the situation. Many of course hold dual citizenship and so have the much vaunted “luxury” of being able to decamp when they are emotionally worn down ( Lisa Goldman of +972 recently could not take it anymore and just f’ed off back to Toronto ). On top of that many have not served in the IDF. For those Israel becomes a place where they can try out their Martin Buber whom they read back in Cincinnati when they were 16 years old. The diaspora Jew makes it to a conflict zone and gets middle-class-helper-syndrome. Others head for Africa, teaching cute little black kids how to read and write or build a school on northern Thailand for Shan refugees.
    The result of this utterly distorted picture is that Israeli’s feel misunderstood by both sides. The disconnect becomes even greater. The conflict is so complex and so deep that 1500 words in a warm safe apartment somewhere in NYC, LA, East Bay or London just fail it. Simple really. But you need to have seen a little of the world to be aware of this. The Middle East isn’t a sand box where I can collect credit for my creative writing course in a second class university. If it were that simple we would not be in this mess.

  • http://972mag.com Dahlia Scheindlin

    ben Dish: I appreciate your attempt to clarify my thinking. However, I think your attack on Lisa is vulgar and way over the line. You discredit yourself with such personal attacks and assumptions. You have no idea what personal stories are behind people’s lives. I have 2 (actually 3) passports, does that make my voice less legitimate? Perhaps one of the more upsetting parts is your painful contempt for Buber. Living in Israel for 14 years drove me BACK to Buber, who had lain somewhat dormant in my mind for all those years. No more. I do think there’s a line of authenticity to be drawn that comes from intimate knowledge and experience with Israel (or anything), but i think your attempt to draw it is aggressive and unnecessarily mean-spirited. For what it’s worth.

  • Masortiman

    its true that giving rights one oppressed segment does not justify harsh oppression of another. Ergo, to me, the full response, which unfortunately Kirchik did not make, must involve once again noting realities about the Israeli position that BDS ignores. IF Israel were expelling the Arabs from the West Bank – IF they were eagerly oppressing the Arabs and building new settlements all over – then talking about gay rights might be a distraction. But that is not the case. The debate now is about expansion of existing settlements, and about building of neighborhoods in Jerusalem that Israel does not consider settlements (And that do not impact the feasibility of a Pal State). Israel under Kadima was willing to negotiate seriously toward a Pal State, and even Bibis willingness has not been truely tested as the PA sets conditions that give him an excuse to delay. Those are things BDS tends to ignore. I do not agree with Bibis approach to the peace process, but I do not think it constitutes something so egregious that the genuine liberal accomplishments of Israeli society, including wrt LGBT, can be dismissed.

  • Masortiman

    “It should be noted that almost all of the rights that you discussed in your article, including adoption, civil partnerships, marriages recognized abroad, and even the right to march in Jerusalem, are due to court rulings, not because the Knesset or the government willingly passed laws to confer these rights to the LGBT population.”

    I would think the role of the independent judiciary in Israeli society is itself something to be celebrated (and of course defended).

  • ben Dish

    Dahlia,
    I have no problem with Buber what so ever, I too read him and love him. I have an issue with people who choose him to take Israel off its hinges in a selective manner and use him as a tool, after he fled the Nazi’s, as did Gershon Sholem. So Judith Butler likes to do, living in SF. It is a tad to easy quoting spiritual giants from 8000 miles away.

    Regarding the passports, the point is not wether we have one or three. The point is more the ( mental ) luxury of being able to sidestep the problem in Israel. Especially if you have spent your childhood here and therefore do not have family/possibilities outside of Israel and can “culturally” leave. I know plenty of Sabra’s who could get a second passport but see their place in Israel what ever happens. When we have no choice but to actually face the problem, we approach it with a different mindset. As compared to the goody goos. The thought of especially North American ( SA and Oz olim see the world differently usually ) olim getting off the bus with their frankly naive ideals ( post reading Buber at Hebrew School in some suburb ) and then getting hit in the face with a war scenario makes me cringe. Unpacking Martin Buber as a anti-Zionist tool from your suitcase at 21 in Israel and than going on to lecture Sabra’s who have lost family and friends in more then one war and suicide bombings shows that you don’t really understand Israeli’s imo. Talk about cultural insensitivity. I prefer to stick to Sabra’s when discussing Israel in detail. It is they who have always lived here. The cultural gap is too wide otherwise. That’s why 972 is mainly for foreigners. And Dana & Co gives talks in the USA catering to a crowd that is so biased it disqualifies him as an agent for change. Lisa Goldman is in Toronto and Dana now lives in Ramallah. What’s up with that ? And these people wish to be a catalyst for understanding and change ? Or Schulman on L.I. ? Ask a Sabra in the street what she thinks of this?….better not.

  • Jules

    I don’t think it’s nonsense at all.

  • Jeffrey

    Andrew R: I know I read Schulman’s op-ed three times, and I see no evidence that Kirchek and other critics glossed over her words. I would turn your argument on its head — Schulman and her cohorts prefer to bash Israel and not credit the nation and its people for a long-standing progressive LGBT public policy record. Her only tribute to Israel is to its LGBT population, deliberately ignoring that the overwhelming majority of all citizens support full LGBT inclusion in society. Shulman gives more props to the nascent Palestinian LGBT movement, without noting the deep and abiding hatred of gays that continues to permeate many Arab and Islamic cultures.

    Schulman’s first three paragraphs deal with condemnation of specific anti-Muslim statements/actions by gay Europeans and Americans. She then illogically equates those issues with Israel’s outreach efforts promoting it’s gay rights record, and gay-friendly tourist zones. There’s no equivalence, merely an attempt to associate these two separate phenomena by placing them in proximity on the page.

    As for your assertion that most of the criticism of Schulman proves her/your point, that is absolute nonsense. Most of the critics, including myself, are appalled by Israel’s lurch to the right — religiously and politically. But this is an issue to be dealt with on its own merits, not by concocting a phony relationship between gay rights in Israel and the issues of occupation and anti-Palestinian policies. She wants LGBT Israelis to hate their own country as much as she does, and patronizes them as patsies of their government in her attempt to do so.

  • Jeffrey

    James — sorry for misspelling your name in the above comment.

  • Erica

    Bringing waring religions through hatred.

  • http://www.voiceofklezmer.com Elizabeth Schwartz

    A lot of intransigent comments here, but point number one is the only one that is truly relevant to the Times op-ed piece: There’s just no connection between gay rights and the Israel-Palestinian morass. Schulman’s craven attempt to delegitimize the entire state of Israel by diminishing its record of gay rights was ridiculous to begin with, and the Times editorial staff should have recognized this. It was just an intellectually empty exercise in “topping up the tank” of anti-Zionist sentiment and invective. The real parallel should have had nothing to do with the LGBT community. Since the charge (and the incidents) focus on how Israel treats Palestinians, the correct example should have been how the surrounding Arab nations historically treated Jews, and how they cared for Jewish historical sites in Jerusalem. And moreover, how they would treat Jews still if Israel weren’t so belligerent. I can’t excuse Israel’s more right-wing actions, but I daresay many of us who sit in the comfort of our homes here in the US and have a strong opinion should get our butts over there to see for ourselves, to talk to Muslims and Jews within Israel and be willing to hear something we’d hoped not to. It’s very difficult to blanketly demonize a country once you speak with its citizens. The rhetoric – like attempts to diminish the good Israel has done and does – are empty and tired.

  • Colby

    A very good response to the op-ed from last week, thank you.

  • Hello, Tablet, anyone there?

    Ben Dish- I totally agree. Dahlia, it’s not aggressive and mean spirited. It’s simply the truth. Which, as they say, often hurts. Aww, you don’t like it when the other side points it out, do you? What an awesome complaint from a leftist- or did you think aggressive and mean spirited critique was reserved for leftist saints?

  • allwearesaying

    You have explored a very charged issue with sensitivity and subtlety. Is that even allowed any more?

    The bone-headed tactics you describe have become part and parcel of what can only be very loosely called a “debate” on the Israel/Palestine conflict. The “rules” are very simple. (1)Anything that Israel has done, is doing, or will ever do, is, by definition, malevolent. Anything that doesn’t obviously fall into that category, such as more enlightened treatment of gays, in this case, is to cover up for something that falls under Rule (1).

    (2)Arabs, in general, and Palestinians in particular, are hapless and helpless victims of forces entirely beyond their control, such as “MSM”,”Western Imperialism”, “American Oil interests, or supported strongmen”, “CIA/Mossad/Al Quaida” “elitists/banksters/NWO-ists”, etc., etc. They are totally incapable of having their own legitimate political oppositions, desire for fundamental political change, even if the direction of that change isn’t what some in the West would prefer. So any time they grow weary of decades of tyranical family rule, agitate politically, or simply act violently to kill off potential enemies, either internal or external, this can’t possibly be due to their own wishes, or due to religious inclination. It is, again by definition, the fault of any combination of the above actors. Anyone who argues this with entirely factual information is simply indulging in Hasbara.

    The hare-brained logic is akin to a child who brings home a report card that shows he is doing well in literature but poorly in Math. Most parents would congratulate the child on his language skills and work to shore up arithmetic deficiencies. But in the bizarro world of the “debate”, the parents of this child would accuse the child of deliberately doing well in writing in order to hide their poor math performance.

  • Ben

    “I would think the role of the independent judiciary in Israeli society is itself something to be celebrated (and of course defended).”

    And it should. But for the government to cash in on the gay rights situation in Israel after it fought tooth-and-nail to prevent those same rights (hence the Supreme Court having to step in) is awfully hypocritical, and Avigdor Lieberman signing off on a campaign that equates Israel with gays on an international level is just downright fishy. Saying it’s to cover up Israel’s treatment of the Palestinian’s is indeed a stretch, but the whole situation is certainly odd.

  • albert kava

    This article is excellent. Especially, its ultimate conclusion vis a vis the political left. I read Ms. Shulman’s “Pinkwash” in the NY Times. While I am a regular reader of Tablet, I would have preferred to see this article in the New York Times, a more public domain as a direct reply to Ms. Shulman’s vitriol and a place where the Left justifies itself daily.

  • ben Dish

    Since we talk about people and a country most don’t really know I will offer this link to some gay Tel culture.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F0QZUydNbgY

  • ben Dish

    …and here is another link to some Israeli reality,
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9MqhwvGWTPg&feature=related

  • Gil

    There they go again. The Arabs always
    have a way of condemning Israel’s
    tolerance. Bottom line: In Israel,
    gays walk together “hand in hand” just
    like heterosexuals. In Gaza and the
    Arab West Bank, lunatic Moslems walk
    down the street with the heads of gays
    in their hands. So which society is
    superior and which society is inferior?
    Concerning the Jewish Israelis who protested the gay parade, they are the
    same “screw-balls” who threw stones at
    Israeli soldiers in our fight for independ-
    ence. And which group serves in the IDF
    in greater numbers–gays or ultra-orthodox
    parasites????? Gil

  • STS

    I’m a late comer to this response to the NYT op-ed. Good response. Would be
    even greater if it or part of it was published as a response in the NYT.
    I hope you will at least try to get it in.

  • .arcaneone

    I am a somewhat right-wing resident of Israel. I am pro gay rights,while being hetero myself. I have been reading Tablet from its inception; you may recall my repeated remarks that the level of social analysis
    shown by Tablet’s readership is far above the level shown by the social commentators
    the magazine tends to draw on. How much
    more do you have to see to identify these
    hyperbolic critics as outright psychopaths who are ready and willing to pay the coin of
    expanded anti-Semitism to gain entry to the
    salons of the Left? Psychopaths. And you
    wonder why the Left has become so marginalized.

  • EA

    I am a gay Israeli living in Berlin. I am sooo tired of people using Israel as a symbol of oppression and clinging to it like a rottweiler locking its jaw onto a poor child’s arm. enough! It’s like using holocaust to shut germans up. It’s cliché and keeps minds and discourse narrow.
    Israel is a country that consists of new and old immigrants, sabras, arabs (both Christian and Muslim), secular people of all religions and ultra orthodox fanatics, Extreme settlers/palestinians …
    IT’S WAY TOO COMPLEX for a NY writer to understand i guess… you need to grow up there (i grew up in Jerusalem of all places), live in a few places in the world (USA-3 years, Italy-3 years, Germany-1.5) to understand how much others outside the country (and some inside) have no clue of what the hell is going on.
    every time i read an article, i say to myself – god, these people have no damn clue! would love to visit that fictitious land they write about one day… i guess it’s the same one being “designed” by Television editors on CBS, ABC, Fox, El Jezeera and BBC to fit their viewers’ minds accordingly.
    if they knew how complex it is to live in such a chaotic country. take brazil’s diversity, south african tension, US diseases (religious fanatics, economic gaps between rich/poor), soviet bureaucracy and put in a blender. then add cultural gaps between christians /muslims, jews and arabs, sepharadic/ ashkenazi jews (sadly still exist…) and secular/religious/ultra orthodox.
    Please Sarah – go ahead, dissect us. write polished articles about this fictitious country of Is-ra-el. feed your readers stories about how is-ra-el “really is”. for me, it’s just pathetic. it’s like throwing rocks at a tank.
    Gays have fought a lot for their rights in israel. Netanyahooo uses it to make his fanatic government look good to the world. NYT writer took the bate and reacted. boring. react to reality, not political hocus pocus. take on assignments you understand and do some research. wow.

  • EA

    oh, and one more thing: Tel Aviv was voted the best gay city in 2011 by gaycities website – with 46% of the votes… leaving NYC in second place (14%). so please, a gray professor from staten island v gay travelers… hmmm…
    http://www.gaycities.com/best-of-2011/vote.php?page=10

  • HannaH

    Gays have no rights and maybe murder.
    Under the Palestinian Authority’s. you must be kidding. Christians have rights?
    Would Jews have rights. Would liberal Moslems. If there was such a thing in the Palestinian area. Hell they has fun murdering Muslims lots of luck with gay rights

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