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In Wayne Hoffman’s new novel, Sweet Like Sugar, a young gay man and an older Orthodox rabbi—who believes the Torah forbids homosexuality—find a way to bridge their differences and become friends

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According to the Torah, homosexuality is forbidden. That injunction is what makes Rabbi Zuckerman, a frail old man, recoil when he learns that a new friend, a 20-something named Benji Steiner, is gay. These characters and their relationship anchor a new novel, Sweet Like Sugar, by Wayne Hoffman. It’s a story that takes on identity, personal secrets, and the search for connection. The novel is something of a departure for Hoffman, whose debut, Hard, took a much more explicit look at gay life, describing the personal and political engagement of a group of gay men in the late 1990s in Greenwich Village.

Hoffman is also the deputy editor of Nextbook Press, the book imprint affiliated with Tablet Magazine. He joined Vox Tablet host Sara Ivry to talk about the book, how his two careers—novelist and editor—influence one another, and his own experience finding acceptance as a gay Jew. [Running time: 16:09.]
 

  • Hershl

    You write:

    According to the Torah, homosexuality is forbidden.

    This is absolutely wrong.

    The Torah never condemns homosexuality. It forbids anal intercourse whether between two men or a man and a woman.

    The rabbinical commentaries stated long ago that since sex between two women is not mentioned in the Torah then homosexuality is not the issue.

    I was told this by one of the greatest poskim in Lakewood, Rabbi Dov Lesser. When I told him I was gay, he replied, So what? What’s the problem?

    He then explained the above to me and invited me to come spend Shabbos with him and his family.

    He told me that the rank ignorance in the Jewish community has perpetrated this myth for years.

    BTW, I started the gay and lesbian shul in Chicago in 1976 when the Chicago Jewish community refused to allow openly gay Jews like myself to be part of their congregational life.

    That shul is still going strong.

  • chana

    thank you hershl for posting this…

  • Leon Gefen

    I am a gay orthodox Jew living in Chicago…where is that Shul ?? Is it Or Chodosh ?? Or the one on Sheridan RD. ?? Neither are orthodox. Also I am confused by your comments that Homosexuality isn’t forbidden. You follow that by a statement that Anal sex is forbidden. That sounds like a contradiction to me . If anal sex is forbidden doesn’t that forbid Homosexuality ???? Please explain your (Or Rabbi Lessers) statement.

  • dina

    leon, anal sex is a sexual act. homosexuality is a state of being. a book you might want to read is ‘wrestling with god and men’ by rabbi steven greenberg, a gay orthodox rabbi.
    good luck

  • Lenore W. Zuspan

    Can you tell me how I can order the books featured in this article?

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In Wayne Hoffman’s new novel, Sweet Like Sugar, a young gay man and an older Orthodox rabbi—who believes the Torah forbids homosexuality—find a way to bridge their differences and become friends