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Blind Orthodox May Touch Their Dates

But not to find out if they’re beautiful, rabbi decrees

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It is, in truth, an excellent question, when you stop to think about it. If a blind man “sees” what people look like by touching their faces, how is a blind Orthodox man—prohibited from touching a woman who is not his wife—to see what a potential wife looks like? Thankfully, Rabbi Yuval Sherlo, head of Israel’s Petah Tikva Hesder Yeshiva, has provided an answer, Ynet reported yesterday: A blind Orthodox man may indeed feel his date—so long as he intends to marry her. “This is the way a blind man gets to know his partner,” the rabbi wrote. “It may even be correct to say that he is required to touch her.” While a religious ruling says men may not look at women because of their beauty, but Sherlo acknowledges one still wants to know about a potential wife’s appearance. “A blind man cares about many things, even if he cannot see them,” he said.

Rabbi Sherlo: Blind Men Can Feel Their Dates [Ynet via Failed Messiah]

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Blind Orthodox May Touch Their Dates

But not to find out if they’re beautiful, rabbi decrees

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