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When It Comes to Fashion, ‘It’s Complicated’

Long skirts, forbidden jeans, and a young girl’s style evolution

by
Stephanie Butnick
February 12, 2015
(Esther Werdiger/Racked)
(Esther Werdiger/Racked)

Racked’s impressive relaunch this week boasted a feature called Fashion Gateway Drugs, in which writer types and fashion folks shared the stories of how they first got hooked on fashion. Iris Apfel, the queen of understated glamour and oversized glasses, credited her mother’s accessory obsession (“I always say she worshipped at the altar of the accessory”). Drew Barrymore remembered seeing movie stars getting dolled up for film roles when she was a kid (“It was like this secret society—they all had eyelash curlers and rollers in their hair and coffee. I felt like I was backstage at a ballet.”). Man Repeller blogger Leandra Medine described a nascent fashion sense developing in spite of the strict uniform her Modern Orthodox Jewish day school required.

Esther Werdiger, Tablet’s art director, contributed a comic about her “complicated” relationship with fashion. In it, she describes growing up feeling both intrigued by the world of fashion and wary of its exclusionary nature. She and all the girls she knew growing up wore long skirts—“Jeans,” she writes in one panel, “honestly felt mythical.” Beyond the directive of modesty, though, she admits didn’t always “have the guts” to wear some of the more creative designs she concocted for herself. It’s a sweet, moving, and completely universal story; you can check it here.

Stephanie Butnick is chief strategy officer of Tablet Magazine, co-founder of Tablet Studios, and a host of the Unorthodox podcast.