Today He Is a Fountain Pen

President Obama gives a bar mitzvah speech to Reform conference

Becoming Women

Bat mitzvahs tell us less about tradition than they do about how girls create rites for coming of age, as the new book Today I Am a Woman shows

Coming of Age

Writing a song for my synagogue, hearing it sung at Lincoln Center, and finally finding the right words to tell my kids why Judaism is important

Mixed Messages

An increasing number of intermarried couples are choosing to raise their children with two religions. Three videos, part of a Columbia Journalism School project, allow interfaith kids to speak for themselves.

In Good Company

When memoirist Janice Erlbaum was 13, she was elated to attend the bar mitzvah of her secret heartthrob. But when she found herself hanging with the mean girls, things turned less celebratory.

In Lieu of Gifts

Forgoing the usual bar and bat mitzvah swag, some teens are asking guests to contribute to charity

Goldstone Bows Out From Grandson’s Bar Mitzvah

Pressure from S. African community will keep the judge from joining the hora

Sundown: New Human Rights Watch Head

Plus don’t cry for A’jad, Elie Wiesel, and more

Saturday Night Fever

Why some families are opting for havdalah bar or bat mitzvah services

A Disturbing, Mostly Nonexistent Trend

Do b’nai mitzvah engage in oral sex?